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Say No To Valentines Day…

Say No To Valentines Day

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INTRODUCTION
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➨ QURAN 6:120
Leave sin, open and secret. Verily, those who commit sin will get due recompense for that which they used to commit.

➨ QURAN 7:33
Say: “(But) the things that my Lord has indeed forbidden are immoralities whether committed openly or secretly.

➨ QURAN 9:38
Are you pleased with the life of this world rather than the Hereafter?
But little is the enjoyment of the life of this world as compared with the Hereafter.

➨ QURAN 35:8
What! is he whose evil deed is made fair seeming to him so much so that he considers it good?

➨ QURAN 58:20
Indeed, the ones who oppose Allah and His Messenger will be among those most humiliated.

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MARRIAGE – The Best Way Out
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➨ QURAN 4:3
Marry of the women, who seem good to you.

► PROPHET MUHAMMAD (ﷺ) said:
There is nothing like marriage, for two who love one another.

(SUNAN IBN MAJAH Vol #3, Hadith #1847)

➨ QURAN 24:33
But let them who find not [the means for] marriage abstain [from sexual relations] until Allah enriches them from His bounty.

► PROPHET MUHAMMAD (ﷺ) said:
O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty, and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power.

(SAHIH BUKHARI Vol #7, Hadith #5066-5065)

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DO NOT SPEAK WITH NON MAHRAMS IN SOFT VOICE
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➨ QURAN 33:22
O wives of the Prophet! You are not like any other women. If you keep your duty (to Allah), then be not soft in speech, lest he in whose heart is a disease should be moved with desire, but speak in an honourable manner.

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DO NOT LOOK AT NON MAHRAMS
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➨ QURAN 24:30
Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty.

➨ QURAN 24:31
And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty;

► PROPHET MUHAMMAD (ﷺ) said:
Do not give a second look (at non mahram male/female),
(because) while you are not to blame for the first, you have no right to the second.

(SUNAN ABU DAWUD Vol #2, Hadith #2149)

► Jarir said:
I asked the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) about an accidental glance (on a woman). He (ﷺ) said: Turn your eyes away.

(SUNAN ABU DAWUD Vol #2, Hadith #2148)

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DO NOT INTERACT WITH NON MEHRAM IN SECRET
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► PROPHET MUHAMMAD (ﷺ) said:
Behold! A man is not alone with a woman but the third of them is Ash-Shaitan.

(SUNAN TIRMIDHI Vol #4, Hadith #2165)

► PROPHET MUHAMMAD (ﷺ) said:
No man should be alone with a women without there being a mahram present.

(SAHIH MUSLIM Vol #3, Hadith #3272-3274)

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DO NOT TOUCH/SHAKE HANDS WITH WOMEN
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► PROPHET MUHAMMAD (ﷺ) said:
I do not shake hands with women.

(SUNAN IBN MAJAH Vol #4, Hadith #2874)

► PROPHET MUHAMMAD (ﷺ) said:
For one of you to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle is better for him than that he should touch a woman who is not permissible for him.

(SAHIH AL JAAMI Hadith #5045)

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NO PLACE FOR ADULTERY
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➨ QURAN 17:32
And come not NEAR to the unlawful sexual intercourse.
Indeed, it is ever an immorality and is evil as a way.

► PROPHET MUHAMMAD (ﷺ) said:
Learn from me, learn from me, learn from me (the punishment for Zina/Adultery). Allah has ordained a way for them. For an unmarried person with an unmarried person, one hundred lashes and exile for one year. For a married person with a married person, one hundred lashes and stoning (to death).

(SAHIH MUSLIM Vol #4, Hadith #4414-4417)

► PROPHET MUHAMMAD (ﷺ) said:
1) The adultery of the eye is the lustful look and
2) The adultery of the ears is listening to voluptuous (song or talk) and
3) The adultery of the tongue is licentious speech and
4) The adultery of the hand is the lustful grip (embrace) and
5) The adultery of the feet is to walk (to the place) where he intends to commit adultery
And the heart yearns and desires which he may or may not put into effect.

(SAHIH MUSLIM Vol #7, Hadith #6753-6754)

NOTE:
In cases of unavoidable circumstances, one can touch other person of opposite sex. For example a doctor can touch his/her patients.

PROOF?
➨ QURAN 6:119
He (Allah) has explained to you in detail what is forbidden to you, except under compulsion of necessity.

FINALLY …

➨ QURAN 6:44
So, when they forgot (the warning) with which they had been reminded, We opened to them the gates of every (pleasant) thing, until in the midst of their enjoyment in that which they were given, all of a sudden, We took them to punishment, and lo! They were plunged into destruction with deep regrets and sorrows.

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